"BONUS EDITION: Happy Mother's Day!"

On Wednesday we heard from Bolaji, a mom that has been in the mom game for a little over a year. Today I’m excited to share from someone that has been in the mom game for almost 40 years. She has three biological children, but she’s a mother to many. Some one that I love and respect a lot…my mother, Mrs. Felicia Olaitan Omoni.

#madeinNigeria – Awe, Oyo State, Nigeria

Here’s her message to Women and Mothers:

On this Mother’s Day, the most important piece of advice that I would give any mother, woman or girl is to always seek God. No matter how big or small the situation, seek Gods direction. I’m a testament of His faithful and I know that He will never fail you. This is not to say that life is perfect, there will be challenging times, but stand strong and never give up on Him.                                                                                                                


For the moms, I know you have a lot on your plate, but you have to be engaged in your children’s lives - From doing homework to taking them to the park to play to disciplining them when the need arises. In this culture where instant gratification is prevalent, teach your children to appreciate what they have and to be polite. Also encourage them to work hard for their goals. Not everything will be handed to them on a silver plate, so encourage them to keep pushing  until they’ve accomplished what’s been set before them.




Being a mother is a special calling by  God and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. God has entrusted you with His property to raise and nurture. It’s a privilege that I am forevergrateful for. I pray that God will give you the wisdom, understanding and grace to raise the children that God has given you.  They will fulfill their destines, in Jesus Name.

Happy Mother’s Day!

My Daughter, Me and My Mom :) 


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Name: Olateju Adesida

Currently based in: Chicago, IL, USA
Where are you from in Nigeria?
Nee Omolodun from Awe in Oyo State. My husband's hometown is Owo in Ondo State. #madeinNigerna
What’s the name of your organization?

Fehinty African Theatre Ensemble



Tell me a little bit about your organization?

Fehinty African Theatre Ensemble is the premiere theatre company in Chicago that was founded by African immigrants . We aim to stage works that illuminate the African experience from homeland to Diaspora. We also provide a platform for emerging artists to write, direct,perform, and produce works that share current, relevant, and global stories of the African experience in the 21st century.  


Whats the passion/purpose behind your business?

Stories are powerful. They represent people, cultures, beliefs, values. They are a way of knowing, feeling, and connecting human beings to our shared humanity. However, as powerful as stories are, it is even more important who tells them and how they are told. Unfortunately, we as Africans are often not the ones telling our own stories. That's where FATE comes in; to make sure that we are the one's telling our own stories. 


If a little girl walked up to asking for your advice and you only had a few minutes to give ‘em your best tip, what would it be?

You are more capable than you think, more beautiful, smarter, and more talented than you have imagined.  The grace is already in you to be that much more. Have courage. Don't be afraid.    

What words/quotes do you live by?

It comes from Zenzele, A Letter for my Daughter, a novel by J. Nozipo Maraire, that I adapted into a one woman play:

To be an African woman is to be strong. It is to be at peace within. You must always listen to that inner voice and not permit others to drown it out. It is to measure your words, to balance your works with your gifts carefully. It is in some way to be selfless, to serve others, yet to know and defend your rights to the bitter end.  


I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 


The best art is political and you ought to be able to make it unquestionably political and irrevocably beautiful at the same time. - Toni Morrison


    Anything else that you would like to add?

    I don't do this work alone. I have a great team that includes some phenomenal women who share the vision and I couldn't do it without them. I am also so encouraged and inspired by many African women I see living out their passion and purpose... like Ankara Luv. I hope we all continue to bear each other up.  


    For more information on FATE, contact:

    Website: www.fehintytheatre.org

    Email: info@fehintytheatre.org,

    FB: FATE

    Twitter: @FehintyTheatre

    What's your story? and if someone were to tell it, what would it look like? Live life with little or no regrets and try to make a positive impact wherever you go. 




    "Sit Back, Relax, and Take Care of You"

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    Name: Bolaji Idakoji

    Organization: Hey Ma

    Based in: San Francisco, CA

    #madeinNigeria: Lagos, Nigeria via Chicago, IL


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    "We need to take care of ourselves. Understand what your purpose is in life.  Believe it or not, you are more than just a mother or wife.  Learn to be ok when everything is not done and things are still left on your checklist as unmarked.  Take time out for yourself. One thing that has helped me out is being around sisters/friends who kept me accountable.  Who inquired about my dreams and goals?  Not only did they inquire, but they followed up. Maybe God has placed you in someone's life to be that sister to check up on and guide. "

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    Bolaji's favorite quote:

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    Website: https://www.heyma-ma.com

    Email:  bksanni@gmail.com

    What are some things you plan to do take care of you? Post it in the comments  section below.



    "Grace to Give"

    Name: Grace Aderolake Olaleye

    Business: PureGrayce Skincare

    #madeinNigeria –  Itasa, Oyo State, Nigeria

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      IG: @PureGrayce

      Twitter: @PureGrayce



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      Ayo D.